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Saturday, May 21, 2016

On the Front battle to combat Child Sexual Abuse in the Jewish Community OP-ED BY MARK MEYER APPEL

                                   
An interview with  Mark Meyer Appel, the founder of  The Voice of Justice

WEDNESDAY, 18 MAY 2016 07:16 ARIELLA HAVIV
There is no doubt to anyone who has eyes to see and ears that hear that the myriad headlines that dominate the media reveal egregious corruption amongst trusted officials and the kind of moral turpitude that causes a collective cringe.
For decades, the seemingly at peace Orthodox Jewish world has had its share of shocking publicity when facts emerged about horrific child sexual abuse; perpetrated not by circumspect types in the outside world but by respected adult members of the community.
Raising one’s voice in outrage and indignation and thusly confronting the dense wall of silence that has been erected by the Orthodox Community in shielding perpetrators has been a most daunting venture. Given the community’s resistance to speaking openly about this terrifying phenomenon, those who would entertain the notion of crossing this invisible line are readily shunned; threatened and even ostracized.
Enter Mark Meyer Appel, founder of the Voice of Justice. Mr. Appel’s name has come to personify those victims of abuse whose voices have been drowned out in this continuing and painful conversation. Mr. Appel , however, cannot claim neophyte status in terms of acquiring knowledge on child sexual abuse.
Having started the organization “Voice of Justice” many years ago, New York City resident Mr. Appel has been an advocate for youth and children’s services and served on the mayor’s task force on mental health. Under the administrations of both Mayors Giuliani and Bloomberg, Mr. Appel also served on the board of directors of the New York City Health and Hospitals Corporation as a mayoral appointee
Moreover, Mr. Appel’s dedication also stretched to those children with special needs who had been previously ignored or neglected by the system that was created to serve them. In 1990, Mr. Appel worked with both city and state agencies to establish an early intervention program for special needs kids, kids at risk and learning disabled kids.
Mr. Appel also played a major role in finding jobs for marginalized kids, providing them with an appropriate education and offering them a substantial amount of financial support.
“When I worked with youth at risk during programs at my home, I discovered that many of them had been horribly abused, “ Mr. Appel ruefully recalled.
“The abuse had a major impact on their lives. It really hurt these kids and the family structure. When kids are abused they have tremendous difficulty trusting anyone anymore. Tragically, the leadership of the Orthodox world has not been in the forefront of helping them and that sense of abandonment triggers anger within these victims,” explained Mr. Appel
Having witnessed the emotional scars and trauma of child sexual abuse among those he worked with, Mr. Appel was driven from a source within himself to help expose this otherwise surreptitious phenomenon.
MARK APPEL.RABBI YOSEF BLAU,RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM ZTL
PROCLAMATION  NY STATE CAPITOL
“Over the years, we became involved in major cases of those charged with child molestation. We spent many years attending court proceedings and trials to show our constant support. We want these victims and survivors to know that we have their backs,” said Mr. Appel.
For the last eight years, Mr. Appel has devoted the lion’s share of his time to conducting well organized lobbying efforts in Albany to call for a major reform in the statute of limitations. The proposed modification in the law would grant victims of child sexual abuse a sufficient amount of time to file criminal charges against the person or persons who perpetrated the heinous acts against them.
“It is our moral responsibility as Orthodox Jews, as upright citizens of this country, to make it our business to eliminate these predators, “ intoned Mr. Appel. “Because child sexual abuse gets swept under the proverbial rug in Orthodox circles , it very often comes out many years later. I worked with victims who were abused over 20 years ago, and who never pursued their cases out of fear and always remained mum about it. One day, without warning, a trigger will go off in their brain and all the nightmarish memories will surface and they will be reliving the abuse. Now, however, as adults they do want to redress their grievances in a court of law and that right should be afforded to them,” he said with palpable emotion reverberating in this voice.        
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Known as the Child Victims Act (Bill # A2872A – in the assembly) and initiated by Assemblywoman Margaret Markey, (D-Queens), the legislation, if passed, would eliminate these time constraints in criminal and civil cases of child sexual abuse.
At the beginning of May, Mr. Appel was joined by more than 130 Jewish leaders who have also signed the petition backing the bill. Among those rabbis and advocates are Jewish Community Watch, Kol v”oz, The Voice of Justice, Mageinu, United Support Network, Jewish Board of Advocates, and The Bridge Project.
New York’s archaic statute of limitations sharply limits the time victims have to bring charges against a molester. A victim must come forward within five years after the age of 18 to bring criminal or civil charges against their abuser or any agency or organization that should have reported the crime.
As was reported in the Daily News, New York City lags behind states like Georgia, Massachusetts, Florida and Utah, all of which in the past several years have passed bills that lengthened the time victims have to bring their cases to court.
Some victims are unable to come to grips with the abuse they endured until middle age or even later in life but certainly not before the age of 23. Furthermore, in religious communities, by limiting the right to sue and prosecute to the age of 23 has created a situation where victims of abuse may have lost a chance for closure to come forward with charges regarding the abuse suffered.
“Our biggest impediments in having this bill pass are the extensive influence of the Catholic church, the opposition of the Agudas Yisroel of America and the abject silence of Governor Cuomo, Senate GOP leader John Flanagan and Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie, “ explained Mr. Appel.
“What I can say is that the statement released to the media by Rabbi Avi Shafran of the Agudah (an organization that represents haredei Orthodox yeshivas and shuls), along with the backing of the Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah and other yeshivas such as Chaim Berlin and Torah V’Daas only serves to further infuriate the victims of child sexual abuse because what they are essentially saying is that they don’t want to be held accountable for the abuse that took place on their premises. They don’t want to confess as to whether they knew or did not know that such abuse was happening, “ said Mr. Appel.
For its part, the Agudah has said the bill would open up institutions to “ancient claims and capricious litigation,” as they had written in a 2009 statement it had issued in conjunction with the haredi schools network Torah Umesorah.
Speaking to the JTA, Agudah director of public affairs and regular newspaper columnist Rabbi Avi Shafran declared, “We do not oppose extending or even eliminating the criminal statute of limitations for cases of abuse. Our concern is simply protecting the economic viability of Jewish schools. Yeshivas operate on shoestring budgets.”
Because of his stalwart efforts to challenge the status quo, Mr. Appel has been branded anti-haredi by his detractors, but he says, “I am not at war with Agudath Israel. They have many wonderful programs including Daf Yomi and I very much respect Rabbi Dovid Zweibel. He is an exceptionally decent person. But having said this, I must also say that the Agudah and Torah Mesorah should have been in the forefront of this campaign to have this legislation passed.”
Recalling that he attended an event about three years ago that was operated by “Sacred Lives” ( a group dedicated to helping abuse victims), Mr. Appel said that many Jewish summer camp directors were present including Rabbi Ronnie Greenwald, zt’l of Camp Sternberg for girls in upstate New York and Rabbi Zweibel of the Agudah. He had also donated tens of thousands of dollars to ensure it success as he has done throughout his career working with abused children. “These rabbonim have to agree unanimously that abuse will no longer be tolerated. The good news is that there are many who are very supportive of abuse victims,” said Mr. Appel.
He adds that such culpability on the part of the Agudah and the yeshivas where the abuse took place would have done much in the way of promoting emotional and mental healing of the victims. “It would have graphically illustrated the fact that the yeshiva took responsibility for the reprehensible acts that took place under their bailiwick,” said Mr. Appel.
He added that because victims have been filing abuse charges in other states, it is beyond shocking that not one yeshiva in California has been shut down. “The Catholic Archdiocese was sued and there was $1 billion in claims,” he said.
Mr. Appel says that the likelihood of yeshivos falling into an insolvent state of affairs if lawsuits from victims were brought against them were slim to none because “yeshivas have good insurance policies that prevent lawsuits and judges are obligated to sign off on a lawsuit in order to proceed.”
He said that the only way that a case against a yeshiva can have legal legs to stand on is if it can be proven in a court of law that teachers and administrators were involved in covering up the abuse. He added that there is a possibility that this precise point that has placed the Agudah and its attendant yeshivas in a defensive posture, but many variables remain to be seen.
Ariella Haviv

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Wednesday, March 23, 2011

OHEL CHILDRENS HOME REMAINS SILENT ON THE EXPOSE BY THE JEWISH WEEK

RESPONSE BY RABBI YOSEF BLAU ROSH YESHIVA YESHIVA UNIVERSITY
               In the March 2 issue of The Jewish Press, Ohel placed a full-page ad responding to criticism that had appeared in another Jewish newspaper. In order to evaluate the ad it is necessary to know what the issues in dispute are. A patient indicated she had abused her own child. The therapists treating parent and child unanimously agreed that the authorities had to be informed. The lawyer for Ohel was consulted and said it was unnecessary and no call was made.
In two cases accused abusers were referred to Ohel by rabbis. Ohel agreed to treat them without demanding they sign a release that would have enabled Ohel to break confidentiality. Both left the program and were later arrested for abuse. Please reread the ad and decide whether the accusations were refuted.
Unfortunately, Ohel in its ad chose to attack a psychologist, a prominent advocate for victims of abuse, for allowing the reporter to use his name. Other sources for the article chose to remain anonymous.
Rabbi Yosef Blau
New York, NY
   Editor's Note: Rabbi Blau is mashgiach ruchani at Yeshiva University. 
In their ad, Ohel attacked the Jewish Week for "only giving them 50 words in their article to say their point of view" which was refuted by the Jewish Week that stated truthfully that they HAD asked Ohel many detailed questions that Ohel, as usual, wouldn't answer.    On the other hand,  Ohel publicly attacked the Jewish Week and the psychologist in question (somebody we all care about) without giving us even one single word to defend ourselves.   How low can you go?  How cowardly?  How babyish? 

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Press Release - VoJ Response to OHEL's Ad in the Jewish Week

Response to OHEL's Ad in the Jewish Week



CONTACT:         MARK M. APPEL       (917) 804-3942 cell
FOR PUBLIC RELEASE       Wednesday, March 2, 2011
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OHEL's attack response to the Jewish Week article by Hella Winston is both outrageous and insulting to the entire Jewish Community.  Instead of responding to specific charges in Ms. Hella Winston's article they decided to launch a vicious attack on the character of all advocacy organizations, as well as our own Dr. Asher Lipner, the co-founder of the Jewish Board of Advocates for Children (JBAC).  It is without question that the community's confidence in OHEL, as well as the respect of the professionalism of OHEL has been diminished greatly in the minds of the community under the leadership of David Mandel and the present Board of Directors.   The truth is that the OHEL Children's Home, at the present time, has a dark cloud surrounding it due to the skepticism and suspicion by major advocacy groups across the country. 

To date, neither OHEL nor has the executive leadership of OHEL accepted responsibility in the serious abuse cases in our community, whether it is the specific information written by Hella Winston on this case or other cases, like the MONDROWITZ case or COLMER case, etc.  At the very least OHEL should have been at the forefront of expressing remorse and compassion to those victims and survivors who suffered at the hands of these savage criminals.

By insulting Dr. Asher Lipner you are insulting the Jewish Leadership of America.  It was Dr. Asher Lipner who garnered support from the Jewish Leadership in America for the declaration of National Jewish Week for Prevention of Child Abuse.   Dr. Lipner united us all by bringing in the Orthodox Union, Rabbinical Council of America, National Council of Young Israel, the Rabbinical Alliance of America, The Chicago Rabbinical Council, J-Safe, as well as Boro Park Local Community Organization, Bikur Cholim of Boro Park, Maimonides Hospital and the Vaad Harobinim of  Brooklyn.  OHEL has not partnered in any of these educational programs, which brought so many leaders together from so many communities in Chicago, Brooklyn and New Jersey. 

Anyone who has partnered in the Brooklyn and Chicago Seminars felt a relief that individuals like Rabbi Yosef Blau, Rabbi Shea Hecht, Zvi Gluck and Mr. Elliot Pasik, the President of JBAC, Rabbi Gershon Tennenbaum as well as Assemblymen Dov Hikind are a unified ONE VOICE with all major organizations and have called for a unity in ONE VOICE in dealing with abuse in our community.  Notably absent from all these events and using his political skills was David Mandel, CEO and the staff of OHEL Children's Home.

One must only look at the YouTube video of David Mandel addressing smaller groups, delivering scripted speeches, which lack any emotion or compassion, and is further introduced by Dr. David Pelcovitz, wherein Pelcovitz introduces Mandel as an expert in child abuse.  A Masters degree in Business Administration does not qualify an individual, i.e. David Mandel, as an expert in child abuse.  We as a community need less talk, which carries no substance, but more action.

The Voice of Justice, as well as the Jewish Board of Advocate for Children, has worked 24 hours a day to provide emotional support as well as financial support in reaching out with a hand of compassion to the families of the victims and survivors.  On a daily basis we have attended court sessions, formal court hearings and stood by these families as a true partner in the work dictated to us by G-D ALMIGHTY to stand by families who are suffering so terribly.

TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS AND LEADERSHIP OF OHEL WE URGE YOU ONCE AGAIN TO STOP  THE POLITICAL GAMES WITH OUR CHILDREN AND TAKE ACTIONS FOR YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES AS ONE OF THE LARGEST NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATIONS DEALING WITH FAMILIES.  You definitely have the resources to be more compassionate and supportive of victims' families.  We hope that the Jewish Week article by Ms. Winston, as well as the grassroots movements to help these families, bring about a stronger and united community.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Press Release - Ohel Jewish Childrens Home and Family Services

                                          
              Call for OHEL Leadership Change

CONTACT:         The Voice of Justice VoiceOfJustice613@gmail.com
FOR PUBLIC RELEASE       Sunday, February 27, 2011

The recent revelations about OHEL Jewish Children’s Home and Family Services in Brooklyn written by Hella Winston of the Jewish Week on February 24, 2011 were, without question, profoundly disturbing, but sadly, not entirely unexpected.

For many years OHEL has been awash with rumors and allegations regarding their staff not reporting incidences of sexual abuse to proper authorities as required by law. In addition, many supervisors at OHEL have reportedly instructed staff not to report the allegations of sex abuse.  These allegations of OHEL’s non-compliance with Federal and state reporting guidelines put the entire organization in jeopardy of losing its government funding and non-profit status.  It also puts senior staff and Board of Directors in jeopardy of possible criminal prosecution.

 
Further, serious concerns have surfaced in the community concerning the partnership and relationship between OHEL and KOL TZEDEK, which is a project of Brooklyn District Attorney Charles Hynes, created to combat sexual abuse in the Orthodox Jewish Community.  KOL TZEDEK's mission statement calls for providing support and assistance to victims and their families. Unfortunately this relationship appears to be a political one, without any substance at all. OHEL, a major partner with KOL TZEDEK, has not provided any emergency support to victims or families of the victims, especially in the recent high profile sex cases in the community, all of which resulted in convictions.

Neither David Mandel, the CEO of OHEL, nor any one of OHEL’s staff, have ever been present at any of the court trials relating to sexual abuse in our community, nor have they reached out to any of the families involved with any compassion or assistance. OHEL, which is one of the largest non-profit agencies in the New York City area, providing mental health and foster care services, should have reached out and offered its services to victims, alleged victims, and their families.
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As Rabbi Yosef Blau, a Rosh Yeshiva at Yeshiva University, pointed out, OHEL is an extremely important institution in our community and operates vital programs that are crucial and needed for the families in our community. However, these troubling issues cannot be swept under the rug. They must be dealt with in order to banish the dark clouds that impede OHEL’s overall effectiveness and compliance.

We respectfully ask OHEL’s Board of Directors to initiate an external investigation. A team of independent professionals, not associated with OHEL, must be invited in to carry out these duties. The external investigation and the implementation of their suggestions will hopefully bring about reinvigorated and honest leadership to the helm of OHEL. This investigation should be similar to the investigation of the Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America (OU) wherein confidence was successfully restored, (specifically after the Baruch Lanner scandal), resulting in the hiring of a new executive leader.  We hope for similar results in this matter.

We firmly believe that bring new leadership to OHEL, specifically a CEO with clinical experience, to guide the agency through this pivotal and difficult period in the agency’s history, will help to restore OHEL’s original vision and vital mission of protecting Jewish children and strengthening Jewish families.

 

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